It's been a long time since I posted.

My daughter comes monthly with groceries, change sheets, to do chores. It's a regular routine, so I am much more comfortable with asking for help. I order the groceries online, so they are all paid for. I bought her a folding wagon to haul them.

I keep a "To-Do" list on the fridge or leave items on the table to remind me.

Found one online for an office chair... helps immensely! The "health/elderly" ones were too expensive. Revised my thinking to others who may sit a lot (truckers, office...)